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3년 전
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안녕하세요 인사말입니다.
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고민 원인이 무엇인지 인지했습니다
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그동안 관계에서 왜 상대에게 맞춰 왔는지 그 이유에 대해 먼저 고민을 해보면 좋겠어요. 위에서 얘기한 것처럼 관계가 너무 중요해서, 혹은 갈등이 벌어지는 것이 싫어서 일수도 있죠. 그렇다면 그에 대한 이유도 있을 거에요. 화를 낼만한 상황에서도 화를 내지 않고 관계를 유지하는 것이 더 우선이 될 수 밖에 없었던 이유는 무엇이었나요? 갈등이 일어나는 것이 나에게는 왜 어렵게 느껴졌을까요? 다른 이유가 있을 수도 있겠죠. 지금까지 마카님의 입을 막아왔던 것이 무엇인지 생각을 해보면 좋겠어요. 그래야 그것을 떼어낼 수 있으니까요. 거절을 하거나 분노 감정을 표현하는 것은 마카님 뿐만 아니라 대부분 어렵게 느끼는 것 같아요. 저 역시도 그렇거든요. 특히나 화가 났을 때 이를 표현하기 어려운 것은 이 감정이 부정적으로만 느껴져서 그런 것 같아요.
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